Bad Day, Better Day

Today, I was walking with Julie at lunch, when I received a call from school. Again. This time, it was the principal. NOT the kind of call I’d like to get ever! We chatted about how Peyton was not doing well in class with the sub, and it was a sub that I knew! She and another student were causing trouble in class, and they had to be removed. The principal wanted to know if there were changes at home. I did admit that we had changed tactics since last week, and are working toward a more peaceful environment with clear expectations and consequences. Well, this is backfiring for Peyton. Brandon has done better with listening at home, but she prefers yelling! Go figure. I explained that I noticed a change in her behavior from the last week, and she has been testing her limits more, and receiving consequences as a result. She’s had a rough week, and has lost her iPad privileges in class and for baseball games. She says she doesn’t care, but I think she is deflecting. She’s trying reverse psychology with us. So, we’ll have to change it up. The principal said since lunchtime, she’d not been called, so things should have been okay. Then, on my way to pick the kids up, I got called again. She was in the office, where she’d stay for the remainder of the day. I went to get her, and we talked in front of her of what was expected. I brought back Lunch Bunch, which I’d talked directly to the principal beforehand, but I wanted Peyton to hear my threat. I was giving her a week to shape up, or be shipped out to LB. The principal told Peyton it was her choice. Play with her friends at lunch or go back to LB. She was agreeable otherwise. We walked to get Brandon, who was confused as to why we were at his door. I told him it’s because she was in the office. He said, “WHAT? What did she do? Are you serious!?” Like it was beyond him to understand that his sister got in trouble! As a result of being kicked out of class, Peyton didn’t get her report card. Brandon did, and he wanted to read it during piano. Normally Peyton goes first. It was hot, and the kids wanted the windows down. So, I rolled both down, and when we arrived at the teacher’s house, I rolled them up, and then turned around to see Peyton’s hand stuck in the window. I think she was so shocked, she didn’t scream or do anything. I rolled it quickly, and there was a distinct line across her knuckles/hand. Here are some buy cheap cialis cute-n-tiny.com important components of guidance to help you out in the process. This anyhow, now being a wide range cialis generic online of plant and floral infusion, which gives an instant result to soothe down the issue of male impotence. While there is a degree of truth in this free viagra in canada cute-n-tiny.com warning. Heavy cheapest viagra in australia Meals Heavy meals never do any good when it comes to sexual stimulation and intercourse. It looked like it may have broken skin, or embossed a deep line in her hand. The kid likes to learn the hard way. I’ve told her many times to keep her hands out of the window. So, I told her she could go second. She was stifling her tears, but it was pretty sad. I asked Ms. M for ice for Peyton’s hand, and she ended up reading for the first 30 minutes after going potty. She recovered and was able to play after Brandon was done. She kept her hand more flat, and Ms. M was trying to get her to tip touch. I’m not sure if it was because of her hand or not. She knew she wasn’t getting a snack after piano since she’d eaten some of her marshmallow bunny earlier in the week. Brandon had some yummy popcorn from Ashlyn’s, while Peyton ate some cheese and fruit. We headed to practice, and Peyton gave good effort for the first half of practice, throwing and catching with Maddie. But the heat caught up to most of the girls and they were pretty lethargic after the second half. Peyton only likes to hit. She doesn’t like being on the field. Finally, practice was over, and we headed home. Brandon was called across the field when Dave had arrived half-way through Peyton’s practice. I had given Peyton an opportunity to stay out later, if she’d behaved at school, but clearly, that didn’t happen, so we went straight home. While at practice, I received an email and phone call from the district that I owed money for lunch. I asked Peyton as we were walking out if she ate school lunch, and she said, “Yes. Today. Because Daddy didn’t give me enough lunch.” So, I forwarded him the note 🙂 She showered up, ate her vegan meal from my food, and then wrote an apology to her substitute. She drew a picture and wrote in her best handwriting to the mom who filled in for her class. She then sorted the laundry, cleaned up after herself, and was tucked in for bed. Brandon had some reading to do, and we talked about his report card, which did improve! His behavior is slowly catching up to his academic performance, which is good to see. Also, the teacher has informed us that he is an “excellent public speaker”! WOW!  

  

Proud of his test scores, too! Above grade level and funny how they flipped from T1. 

    

   

    We’ll continue to get him to be less social in class and more focused. But I’ll take it. We’ll have to see how Peyton’s is tomorrow when we get it.

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