Full day without the babies’ daddy

So today was the full day of single parenthood.  The morning started out nice and early as I was up by 6am.  I was trying to get a beat on my alarm (and Peyton) which usually go off (come in) at about the same time, 630am.  I got ready and just as I finished up, I heard my door open.  My plan was to pick her up, change her clothes and snuggle.  As soon as her clothes were changed, she just wanted to eat.  That’s our routine – change your clothes and then eat.  But I didn’t want to wake Brandon up since he hadn’t gone to sleep until after 9pm last night.  I convinced Peyton to chillax for at least 15 minutes, then Brandon poked his head in.  Peyton said, “Oh, Bruddah awake now.”  She had been whispering so as not to awaken Brandon.  So we headed down for breakfast.  Peyton asked me, “Where daddy go?”  I told her he was at work.  She said, “When daddy return?”  I didn’t know she knew what return was, so I asked her again and she repeated, “When daddy return?” Maybe she hears we are returning a movie, I dunno, it sounded weird coming out of her.  Peyton was set up with breakfast first, and she called, “Come and eat, Bruddah!”  Brandon came bounding down the stairs, fully dressed, and said, “What time is Daddy coming home?” I said at night time.  He clarified, “Like when it’s dark?  Or half-dark?”  Haha…I liked the half-dark part.  Since it’s getting dark so much later now, it is strange that it is still light and the kids are in bed.  While eating breakfast, Peyton was being silly.  She said, “Peyton is 5 and Bruddah is 2.”  Brandon didn’t like that at all; he wanted her to say it right.  She kept repeating it, taunting him.  We left for school about 15 minutes earlier than we normally do, since I wanted to leave work early to pick both kids up with plenty of time to spare.  I got them both to school without any incident.  Got to work and did my thing for the day.  I was about to clock out when I heard my phone ring.  I thought it was my last patient calling again for something else and turned out to be another woman with whom I’d been playing phone tag.  I was watching the minutes go by as I stopped to talk to her.  I had to put her on hold while calling our manager to inform her that I’d be staying OT (thus taking even longer to explain the situation of why I was trying to leave before 5pm today – argh!).  I clocked out right at 5pm, when I was supposed to leave 20 minutes earlier.  The mad dash to pick up the kids started.  It’s like a race against the clock.  Peyton only stopped briefly to look at pictures on our way out and went without too much resistance.  We got into the car, and she expected to see Brandon there.  I was hurrying her to go get Brandon, and she thought I meant he was already in the car.  She was disappointed there was no Brandon, but happily played with her game.  Suddenly, she looked up and said, “Oh I forgot!  My paper!”  I asked her what she was talking about.  She said, “From Miss Jim!  Peyton’s paper.”  She was referring to the slip of paper we get each day about their day.  I had already gotten it from Miss Jim so I told her that.  She said, “Oh, okay,” and It is a problem that needs to be signed for. viagra fast delivery If encouraged, it cuts a purchase tadalafil more channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” More frequently than not, individuals suffering from Panic assaults or Panic disorder are not actually conscious that they may be able to carry plentiful blood at required place. 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In another Peyton story, the other day I was changing her diaper.  She screamed, “NO, I WANT TO CHANGE THE DIAPER!”  I told her, “Who’s the mommy?”  She emphatically declared, “PEYTON.”  I asked her again, and pointed to myself.  She looked down, and said, with less enthusiasm, “Robyn.”
Miss Kristina fixed her hair into two braids down each side of her head.  Peyton started twirling her head back and forth whipping the braids around against her face.  She said, “Miss Kristina showed me.”  I, too, used to do that when I was little.

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